Frustration leads to rebellion and trust generates freedom! Is this reality? Is it true that men live their lives full-length, breadthwise.. while women's rights shrink under the rule of custom and traditions? Why is everything right for man, but not right for woman? and how different is his freedom from hers?
Unfortunately, the meaning of freedom, which we" girls" mean is :why is OK for him to spend the night out until the dawn carousing with his friends while it is forbidden for a female? It has been known that she might get kidnapped. Well, man may also get kidnapped by the thieves or gays, why do not parents stop him?
Why is it right to a man to travel alone, and not right for a female? why? Is it because her principles and morality will change or get affected, or subjected to harassment?? Well, that may change the principles of a man and also subject him to theft and kidnapping!
Why is it right to a man to get involved with sexual relationships and have fun with different women before marriage, but when it comes to have a future family he chooses the right girl which descents from a well-known family to marry her, but it is forbidden to a woman to have sex before marriage. I am not encouraging pre-marriage sex and I know according to the Bible it is banned for both to have that type of relationships before marriage. but according to the society it is normal and obvious for man to do this but not for a woman because she would lose her virginity, chastity and dignity. Do you think that man won't lose his dignity as well when he gets involved with prostitutes or even with girls that have been weak in front of sex?
If the man confessed to the woman that he had affairs and lots of women in his past but not anymore, I believe that the woman would say: well you were honest with me and I forgive you ..
I wonder if the girl confessed to a man that she used to know some men, what would his reaction be? Will he leave her? Will he forgive her and forget her past? mmm
I don't mix here between the Eastern and Western culture, because the latter has given the woman her rights and even more than she deserves.
The thing is that in our Eastern culture, men think that they are superior than women and what ever they say should be done! No, women and men are equal, that is how God created us. It is true they should be respected and they are the head of the family but that doesn't mean to exploit this point to their well-being and start manipulating with their commands which some of are really ridiculous. such as don't wear this, wear that, don't dye your hair keep it natural, don't peirce your nose, don't joke, don't, don't, don't......Grrr they put themselves into where they don't belong sometimes..
You may think I am a psycho writing about this subject, but it is the reality in our culture and it gets on my nerve whenever I live these examples or witness.