April 27, 2009

I got it! part I

The dream has come true… It is the time to count down, it is the time to meet my husband and reunite with him, and simply it is the time to start a new chapter of my life. I have so much to talk about; it was such a trip, a trip to Baghdad. I was told by email to go to Baghdad to the IZ and get my medical tests prior to the VISA interview. So I managed to go on April the 2nd because the test date was on the 4th. My dad and step mom accompanied me to Baghdad; we stayed at my husband's family's house. As the sought day was coming over I prepared my paper works and every thing needed for the tests. After few calls with some people I know, I got me an escort to take me into the IZ (International Zone). My brother in law drove me to the IZ and dropped me there; I found the escort was waiting, after few steps of inspections I was let in…
It was Sunday, the escort had some work to do so he left me at the clinic by my own to do the tests…I was kind of discomfited because I was in a place which was new for me, alone and without an escort…I have almost done with the tests and vaccinations to be surprised with the doctor telling me" I am sorry, the X-ray machine is not working, you have to go to any hospital outside of the IZ and get that done, come back with the results" Grrr I was fuming and boiling, the power I've saved to fight a thief or a flirter I wanted to bring it on that doctor's jaw… I was wondering how should I get out of the IZ, I called A; my escort and asked him, he told me to take a taxi to the suspension bridge and go out to get another taxi to the St. Francis's hospital in Al-Karrada. You know what, being a dependent girl I have never been on a bus or a taxi by my self…my family doesn't let me to do that cuz they are so scared about me, I do look more than good and might look naïve if I get on a taxi cuz I don't know how to deal with a taxi driver. As it is known that %70 of taxi drivers in Iraq are sexual harassers, they put million mirrors around their sight of view so they can peruse their female customers' faces and bodies…their lust is set on fire…darn it. Any way I called my uncle and he told me to take a bus instead of the taxi… I was praying within my self, I wasn't alone I know that Jesus was with me and helping me out. For the first time in my life I raised my hand waving for the coming bus. As I got in I told him to take me to St. Francis's hospital or as they call it "Al-Rahibat" which means "Nuns" because it is run by the nuns. There were about 10 people in that bus so I felt that I am safe. My brain was functioning while the scenes of pedestrians in markets were riveting my eyes; it took me about 10 minutes until I got there. I went in and the doctors at the X-ray section were so polite and kind. They took care of my X-ray paper they put it in the envelop and wished me good luck.
My father –in-law was waiting for me outside cuz he didn't want me to take a taxi back to the IZ. He drove me there again. The same scenario came back I called the escort and you know I ended up in that clinic. The doctors were amazed of how fast and brave I was… (Blushing). I filled out few forms and then I was asked few questions by the doctor about my health history, then I was told to pay $190 for the whole check up while I was told by email to pay 140 dollars only!! Looters. I was done with a big brown envelop in my hands.
To be continued…

9 comments:

Mister Ghost said...

Well, this is great news, Marshmallow. ))))

Someday, just think, you'll be there in Michigan, driving your own car, going shopping by yourself, no escort, no guardian... a big cultural change, which you might find scary at first.

But, just think of the new freedoms, you're going to experience for the first time. )))

And hopefully, you'll eventually move to Arizona or California, where it's nice and warm )))

Unless, you like skiing. )))

All kidding aside, I'm sure many people are happy for you, and that you're happy.

Anonymous said...

Reading this is a bit of a culture shock. Always having to find an escort is weird. In the West, the girls are each others escorts if they are single, or they just go out by themselves. Here taxi drivers are pretty neutral, if they try to sexually harass some female, they get in trouble. Here, most Taxi's have constant radio monitors, that is heard in the head office.
I know the Lord will help you with the newness.

Michomeme said...

Ok, just let me focuse, it is happening, Marshooo, it is going to be true, oh my God I'm so happy for you marsh.
Living away from the country is not easy, but this life it takes you just where ever it leads.
Try to be strong.
You know, I'm not used as well to take a taxi alone, but sometimes if I'm with a friend of mine we take a taxi and wave for vfery old driver. it is better than taking a bus..

Marshmallow26 said...

Hi Guys,

Here is a lil bit of elaboration:

What I mean by escort here is not a private one who I can rely on from my house to the place I am going to.
Since I am going to enter the International Zone or aka the Green Zone which is full of Americans, VIP's, Iraqi government members so only the people who work there and have the escort badge can take me in, other than that I am free when am in the street but still concern about what kinda car and driver I should go with :)

Touta said...

congratulations. :)

Old man taxi drivers are so great with their stories though! Its what i always miss when i leave the iraq (and the middle east in general).

:)

Bill said...

Hi Mars....(waves..come on in we been-a-waiten fer ya)

Such a way kool adventure for you...I envy the emotions you are feeling.

Lefty Frizzell

CMAR II said...

Hip hip pooh ray! to you and your new hubby, Marshmallow!

"We're gathered here today
To eat some cake and say
A Hip Hip Pooh ray
For our heroes!
The stuff of which they're made
Deserves a big parade.
Come along and march behind the drum."

Marshmallow26 said...

Thank you guys :D

Jeffrey said...

Congrats, Marsho!

You're really coming to the US? Hey, maybe as I write this you're already here.

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